{"id":303,"date":"2016-02-23T20:58:06","date_gmt":"2016-02-23T20:58:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.memo24.net\/blog\/?p=303"},"modified":"2025-08-12T07:53:31","modified_gmt":"2025-08-12T07:53:31","slug":"a-glimpse-down-the-dementia-road","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/2016\/02\/a-glimpse-down-the-dementia-road\/","title":{"rendered":"A Glimpse Down the Dementia Road"},"content":{"rendered":"<pre><a href=\"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/cover-book-640x2501.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-318 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/cover-book-640x2501.jpg\" alt=\"A GLIMPSE DOWN THE DEMENTIA ROAD\" width=\"640\" height=\"250\" srcset=\"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/cover-book-640x2501.jpg 640w, https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/cover-book-640x2501-300x117.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a>\n\nA guest post by&nbsp;Vicki Tapia.<\/pre>\n<p>It\u2019s difficult to say for sure when Mom\u2019s dementia symptoms actually began, but certainly long before they were evident to any of the extended family. My parents lived in another town, 2 hours away, and that distance provided a type of disguise for her cognitive decline. It took several years before I began to put 2 and 2 together. Sure, there were the odd behaviors of forgetting certain things such as how to correctly follow a recipe, what an eggbeater is used for or how to send email on her computer. I simply attributed it to old age, the stress of taking care of Dad (who had Parkinson\u2019s disease) or plain old forgetfulness. The day Mom didn\u2019t recognize her granddaughter standing before her, however, was probably the day my uncertainty took root. That was when I began to have vague suspicions there was something more nefarious happening to Mom\u2019s brain beyond simple \u201cold age.\u201d Even so, it took yet another year beyond that incident before she was finally evaluated. And, by then, the diagnosis was already <em>moderate <\/em>Alzheimer\u2019s disease.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that it\u2019s not uncommon to miss clues of cognitive decline when someone we love acts in ways that go beyond normal aging. And when we do observe behaviors out of the ordinary, we often normalize or simply deny there may be an issue. If you\u2019re close to someone who displays any of the following symptoms, it\u2019s worth a medical evaluation.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Becoming more forgetful<\/li>\n<li>Having trouble concentrating<\/li>\n<li>Struggling to perform familiar tasks<\/li>\n<li>Difficulty recalling names or words, or perhaps substituting words out of context<\/li>\n<li>Getting lost in a familiar neighborhood or forgetting how to reach a well-known destination<\/li>\n<li>Repeating the same thing or asking the same questions over and over<\/li>\n<li>Misplacing or putting items in strange places<\/li>\n<li>Family or friends noticing changes in behavior, mood or personality<\/li>\n<li>A lack of desire to engage socially<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>As Mom\u2019s disease progressed, she transitioned from living in her home to an apartment in an assisted living facility. With my assistance, she continued to live independently there for a couple more years. To the best of my ability, I strived to give her the freedom to be in charge of her life as long as safely possible. One of the ways I assisted was by arranging her pills, which were held in daily Monday \u2013 Friday pill containers. During this time Mom was taking upwards of 19 pills each day, some prescription and some over-the-counter-type vitamins. Since I wasn\u2019t with her 24 hours a day, I relied on her to follow through and take the pills appropriately. For a time, this appeared to be working.<\/p>\n<p>Along the way, I\u2019d come to the conclusion that one of the markers for Mom continuing to live safely on her own would be determined by her ability to take her pills as prescribed. And, in the end, although there were other factors involved, such as declining cleanliness and self-imposed social isolation, it was this inability to take her medication as directed that became the overriding factor in the decision to move her to a facility with more skilled nursing care. The tipping point was her medication for osteoporosis, which needed to be taken on an empty stomach, early in the morning before arising. Since I was unable to be present, I did what I considered the next best thing\u2026I plainly marked on her kitchen calendar which days she was to take the pill. Part of Mom\u2019s daily routine was to draw a big black \u201cX\u201d on that particular day\u2019s calendar box which, besides telling her what day of the week it was, also helped her remember to take the osteoporosis medication. I was alarmed, yet not surprised, the day I found only 2 remaining osteoporosis pills in Mom\u2019s cupboard instead of the 6 she should have had. In hindsight, it\u2019s now clear that I should have kept her medication with me, not in her cupboard, irrefutable evidence that in midst of it all, stress caused poor judgment on my part as well. (Unfortunately, I don\u2019t believe any services like Memo24 existed in 2008.)<\/p>\n<p>There are few, if any, people in today\u2019s world who will remain untouched by Alzheimer\u2019s disease or dementia in some form, whether caregiver, relative or someone personally affected by the disease. I\u2019m pleased to see new tools, such as Memo24, are now available to improve the safety and quality of life for those traveling the dementia road.<\/p>\n<h6>Vicki Tapia, Author of <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.somebodystolemyiron.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Somebody Stole My Iron: A Family Memoir of Dementia.<\/a><\/em><\/h6>\n<hr>\n<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.somebodystolemyiron.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><br>\n<\/a><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Vicki-Tapia1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"  alignleft wp-image-307\" src=\"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Vicki-Tapia1-267x300.jpg\" alt=\"Vicki Tapia\" width=\"162\" height=\"183\" srcset=\"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Vicki-Tapia1-267x300.jpg 267w, https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Vicki-Tapia1.jpg 512w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 162px) 100vw, 162px\" \/><\/a>Vicki Tapia, long-time lactation consultant and published author of numerous lactation articles found her energies redirected to the other end of life when both her parents were diagnosed with dementia in 2004. Her diary documenting their journey resulted in the publication of <em>Somebody Stole My Iron: A Family Memoir of Dementia<\/em>, a 2015 finalist for the High Plains Book Awards. The mother of three grown children and eight grandchildren, she lives with her husband and Mini-Schnauzer in south central Montana. Visit <a href=\"http:\/\/www.SomebodyStoleMyIron.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Vicki\u2019s Website\/Blog<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"jumbotron\">\n\t\t  <h1 class=\"display-4\">Did You Know?<\/h1>\n\t\t  <p class=\"lead\"><b style=\"color:red\">Memo24 pill reminder service<\/b> is an automated phone call reminder service, it is used around the world to help the elderly live a more independent life at home.<\/p>\n\t\t  <p>Memo24 is simple to set up and affordable, with no subscription and no hidden fees.<\/p>\n\t\t  <p class=\"lead\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"btn btn-primary btn-lg\" href=\"\/reassurance-calls.php\" role=\"button\">Learn more<\/a>\n\t\t  <\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A guest post by&nbsp;Vicki Tapia. It\u2019s difficult to say for sure when Mom\u2019s dementia symptoms actually began, but certainly long before they were evident to any of the extended family. My parents lived in another town, 2 hours away, and that distance provided a type of disguise for her cognitive decline. It took several years &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/2016\/02\/a-glimpse-down-the-dementia-road\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">A Glimpse Down the Dementia Road<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":317,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[19,17,11,18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/303"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=303"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/303\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":546,"href":"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/303\/revisions\/546"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/317"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=303"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=303"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memo24.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=303"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}